No one said love was easy. But why, oh why, does it have to be so hard sometimes? Doesn't it make you want to give up?

In this video, Lifestyle Coach and YourTango expert, Inez Bracy argues for why we should give relationships a fair chance. After all, there are ways to avoid falling into a pattern with your partner that feels like all work and no play. Find out how you can find the relationship you want without breaking your back to get it.

Check out the video above for love and dating tips on how to reframe your relationship ideals.