As the oldest, the matriarch of my JAMES bloodline, I ask that this site be used only for those who want to respect my brother’s life. Refrain from using this site, trying to make it a sounding board for anything or anyone not confirmed at this time in our family, that may cause confusion. There’s a time & place for everything, this is not good swag, but God will work it out. Please respect the emotions we are struggling through, especially Pat’s wife, my sister-n-law Scronda, whom we love dearly.